For some women, looking for love has always been about finding their soul mates – that man who is the one destined for them.

Stories and songs where soul mates find each other despite the trials that befall them and the continents that separate them become thrilling testimonials to the fact that soul mates exist – never mind that these stories and songs are all creations of an active imagination. Women may have been liberated from repressive social structures, but not from romantic ideals.

Women claim they are no longer looking for physically attractive men. Rather, they are looking for that person who can provide a deep emotional and spiritual relationship with them. For women, this is what defines a soul mate. Granted, women do value emotional connections over physical ones, but have they truly abandoned their natural primal instinct to match with someone physically attractive? My friend and I put this to the test, and we came up with interesting results.

He has been a member of an Internet dating site for a couple of months now. His profile contained all the mundane information potential partners need to know – hobbies, interests, life goals, etc. He has received a few replies since he registered. It didn’t bother him so much; he was just doing this for fun. I asked him to add information regarding soul mates and the importance of an emotional connection in relationships. The number of replies remained in the same range: 8 to12 replies for the whole week. The next day I asked him to change his current photo on his profile to that of a male commercial model, and lo and behold, 30 replies in just one day! Moreover, my friend whereas my friend received friendly but brief replies from his previous profile, his mailbox was now swamped with lengthy emails regarding how these women felt he was their “soul mate”.

Interesting results, aren’t they? Women are looking for a spiritual connection – and it doesn’t hurt if you’re a handsome spiritual connection. This is not to say that women crow about emotional connection and soul mates for the mere sake of appearing deeper and more mature than males. Women do value a deep emotional bond with their partners. However, looks still count. Women still want a handsome and sexy man. Think of it as man’s primal instinct to produce beautiful offspring. But in addition to great looks, they also desire a man who understands commitment and responsibility; a man they can share their thoughts, emotions, and dreams without being laughed at; and more importantly, a man who will unconditionally accept, respect, and love her forever. These characteristics define the “soul mate” women are looking for. http://www.cosmopolitan.com/

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The biggest surf wetsuit retailers in the UK can be found across the web. But there are so many other reasons why you should shop online today. The very latest in materials and design – everything you see here has been especially sourced for you. Sharing your passion for surfing and water sports, we know just how important it is to provide you with the very latest mens wetsuit selection.

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Wedding rings have always been worn by the groom and bride to symbolise their marriage. Traditionally, engagement rings were just for the woman – but is a new trend emerging – the male engagement ring?

Wedding rings have a long, enduring tradition. And the exchange of wedding rings is often a deeply emotional moment as a couple commit to each other and declare their love in front of family and friends. Wedding rings are solid – often simple bands – that can be worn throughout life no matter what. The fact wedding rings have to be worn every day accounts for their simplicity. It wouldn’t be practical to have a ring that looked fitting with an evening gown but had too much ‘bling’ when worn with jeans and a t-shirt. And the simplicity has a certain masculine appeal for the groom. It’s a functional, as well as romantic piece of jewellery. But now, reports have emerged about a new trend – where the grooms not only wear wedding rings, but embrace engagement rings too.

Diamonds – A Man’s Best Friend?

Engagement rings allow women to add a little glamour – often featuring a diamond or two. Unlike the simple wedding rings, engagement rings are often flashed and shown off. But it seems men want to indulge in a little glamour too. Now it’s possible to buy engagement rings designed exclusively for men. But some claim it isn’t just that men are becoming more image conscious, although the likes of David Beckham have certainly changed the male attitude to beauty. Men are more likely to worry about their looks, clothes and even jewellery – as Beckham is often spotted wearing diamond-encrusted rings, earrings and chains. It’s not surprising then that more men want a more bling engagement ring to accompany their wedding rings. But in fact, some claim it’s women who have created the market for male engagement rings. An increasing number of women are now more prepared to propose to their partner, rather than waiting to be proposed to – and to seal the question, they want to give their men an engagement ring too.

Wedding Rings and Engagement Rings?

Wedding rings clearly signify that a man is spoken for. But now, women want more – they want their men to wear engagement rings to tell the world they are in a committed relationship. As today’s engagements can last years, it’s not surprising the demand for male engagement rings has arisen – whether it will take off however is another thing. The idea of a man flashing his engagement ring to his mates, showing off the size of its diamond is still a pretty bizarre one.http://www.gq-magazine.co.uk

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For many men, buying an engagement ring is the first time they’ve ever bought an expensive piece of jewellery – and certainly the first time they’ve ever bought jewellery with such significance. An engagement ring is a symbol of the promise to wed, and whether you’ve discussed marriage with your partner, or you’re planning a complete surprise, you need to choose just one piece from the wide selection of engagement rings.

Diamond Engagement Rings

Engagement rings usually comprise a band of precious metal set with one or more stones. For many people, the solitaire diamond engagement ring is the perfect piece of jewellery for the occasion, but the choice isn’t limited to this design, In fact, there are many variations on this theme and it’s worth taking the time to look at different designs before you decide to buy:

• Solitaire diamonds – these engagement rings feature a single diamond set on a band which is often gold, platinum or, more recently, titanium bands. The solitaire setting gives the diamond centre stage and the diamond itself can be set in several ways: the claw setting, where the stone is gripped at the edges, the most common setting for solitaire diamonds; the bezel setting, where the stone is encased at the sides, hiding the edges and the invisible setting, where the stone is part of the band, rather than standing proud of it. The diamond can be cut in several ways, so it’s always worth looking at several examples before you make a decision.

• Trilogy diamonds – as the name suggests, trilogy engagement rings feature three stones; usually a larger central stone flanked by two smaller cuts. You can choose to have all three diamonds cut the same way, or you can contrast the cut to make an interesting ring. Some say that trilogy diamonds are representative of the past, present and future of the couple, whilst others say they hold a more religious significance. Whatever you believe, this style of jewellery looks beautiful and will certainly bring the wow factor to your proposal.

• Other settings – of course, you can choose a solitaire diamond that’s surrounding by smaller diamonds set directly into the band, or you can look at engagement rings that have a coloured central stone flanked by smaller diamonds. Engagement rings are designed to be simple and elegant and with both modern and traditional jewellery designs available, you’ll be able to find the perfect ring for your partner no matter what her taste.

Straight leg jeans can elongate your legs and make you look slimmer – they are available for both men and women so everyone can get the slimming effect now!

Jeans are the staple item of any wardrobe and this applies all year round. Jeans are popular with both men and women, and there are very few people on the planet who do not own at least one pair of designer jeans.  But there are so many styles that suit different body shapes such as boot-cut, flare, low-rise, skinny and straight leg jeans.

Straight leg jeans can help to elongate your body by making your legs look longer.  So if you want to shed a few excess pounds without the pain of dieting, it could be time to invest in a pair of straight leg jeans from a trustworthy designer brand.

Straight Leg Jeans and Skinny Jeans – The Difference

Straight leg jeans and skinny jeans are particularly popular with men and women who want to make their legs appear longer and their body slimmer.  An obvious choice for the ‘skinny’ effect is to choose skinny jeans – but could straight leg jeans be the better option for you?

The distinctive difference between straight leg jeans and skinny jeans boils down to the width of the leg opening.  Skinny jeans have leg openings of 12-13 inches, whereas straight leg jeans have leg openings of 14-15 inches.

The two inch difference makes a huge contrast in style.  Because straight leg jeans are wider at the hem than skinny jeans, they create a better balance between the top half of your body and the bottom half of your body.  Very often, this can make straight leg jeans more flattering than skinny jeans.

Straight leg jeans are generally a better option for wider calves, inverted triangle shapes or shorter legs.  If you desire the ‘skinny’ look, then straight leg jeans could be a good alternative to skinny jeans.

Straight leg jeans for both men and women can make you look taller, slimmer and well-balanced from head to toe.

Straight Leg Jeans for a Smart/Casual Look

Jeans are undoubtedly considered ‘casual’.  But with so many different styles, shades and shapes, jeans can often give you a smart/casual look that can be integrated into work clothing, weekend clothing and evening wear.

Straight leg jeans for men are designed with a similar fit as straight leg tailored trousers, so when coordinated with a smart shirt, straight leg jeans can help to create a smart/casual look suitable for evening wear or a casual work meeting.

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With so much throw-away fashion on the market today, it can be tempting to cut corners and purchase economy jeans instead of a good quality pair of designer jeans – but low priced jeans are ultimately a waste of good money!

A pair of designer jeans should be the staple item in your wardrobe that can be worn with everything and anything.   Everybody looks good in a pair of jeans and there are styles to suit all looks from punk rock to glam rock, from surfer to hip hop. So if your wardrobe isn’t home to a pair of designer jeans, then your wardrobe simply isn’t complete.

Why Designer?

Jeans are available in so many styles and so many price ranges.  So why should you opt for a more expensive option when your local supermarket is selling jeans for less than the price of a pub meal?  Other than the fear of your economy purchase shrinking in the wash, there are so many other reasons why designer jeans are worth every penny you pay…

Designer jeans are cut so they fit you perfectly.  Some designer jeans will even become a better fit over time as they sculpt around the shape of your body after wearing them several times.  A well-cut, well-fitting, good quality pair of jeans can be trusted to last and maintain a good condition for anything up to ten years.  Of course, many people keep a pair of designer jeans for much longer – ‘old’ designers jeans soon age into the exclusive, high-end category of ‘vintage’.

A pair of jeans from low-end brands which do not specialise in jeans do not have the longevity that a pair of designer jeans has – this can be said for style, quality and durability.  A good pair of designer jeans not only lasts a long time, but will look stylish through the years.

That is why a pair of designer jeans should be considered as an investment, and not just a short-term purchase.

Invest in Designer

Jeans shrinking in the wash, jeans coming apart at the seams, jeans that don’t fit your body shape – we’ve all been through the cheap jeans nightmare.  A pair of fabulous designer jeans may cost you a little bit extra but it is definitely worth the investment, and will actually save you a lot of money over time.

Designer jeans that are selected for your shape and your style will last you a long time and go with almost anything that you have in your wardrobe, from a causal top to shirt and Mulberry Bags UK.

Ted Baker’s retail sales over Christmas 2007 were up by over 12% – proving that the designer’s popularity just keeps on growing. To find out more, visit: http://www.belstaff.com/

Whilst high street stores had problems reaching their Christmas targets, Ted Baker stores helped the company to increase its sales by over 12% compared with the previous 12 month period. The figures, which don’t take into account online sales, show that the British designer is winning fans around the world and that its collections are selling better than many of its rivals.

Ted Baker- new stores, new collections

Famed for its non-advertising approach to marketing, Ted Baker relies on the strength of its collections, it’s seasonal in-store and online campaigns and an increasing number of outlets in order to grow the business, and so far, it’s been very successful. 2007 saw the opening of a new store in Brighton, but also an outlet in Florida, USA, where the company’s clothes are popular with customers from both Britain and the US. What’s more, the total number of stores in Asia and the Middle East has risen to 17, proving that Ted Baker collections for men, women and children, have global appeal.

Ted Baker in the years to come

Previous results show that Ted Baker seems to have a winning formula, which is important in the ever-changing fashion world. Carefully-chosen store locations along with cleverly-designed collections and a good relationship with their key customers and suppliers means that Ted Bake will continue to produce excellent designs at affordable prices, which is exactly what this section of the fashion market is looking for. By maintaining their quirky campaigns – Spring 2008’s campaign features the strap line “Spring is in the Hare” – in-store giveaways and innovative window displays, Ted Baker is likely to continue to grow and find more success over the coming 12 months.

If you haven’t yet bought Ted Baker, now’s the time to look at what’s available. You may still find some great value sale items, or you could take a good look at the new collection of clothing and accessories to see which classic piece you can add to your wardrobe.

Most people who are thinking of taking up Yoga have heard of Ashtanga Yoga – but what is it exactly? Read on, and then you will be in a position to compare Ashtanga Yoga with other forms of Yoga and decide which suits your needs best. To find out more visit: http://www.womenshealthmag.com/

Ashtanga Yoga is also known as 8 limb yoga. This is because in Sanskrit, “ashtau” means 8 and “anga” means limb – it’s just a straightforward translation.

The eight limbs of Ashtanga Yoga are best viewed as a brainstorm diagram, with the 8^th limb, Samadhi, in the centre. Samadhi is concerned with complete happiness, clarity of thought and insight, and you need to make effective and total use of the other 7 steps to get there.

Step 7 (Dhyana). Meditation – clearing your mind of all thoughts and finding freedom in the emptiness of your mind.

Step 6 (Dharana). Focus – removing all distractions from your environment.

Step 5 (Pratyahara). Turning inside. Learning to rely on internal motivation, not to pander to your desires, detach from your senses.

Step 4 (Pranayama). Breathing. One of the most important aspects of Ashtanga Yoga – learning to observe and change your breathing patterns.

Step 3 (Asana). Postures – A series of six postures, each one more difficult than the last, which promote the lightness and strength of the body.

Step 2 (Nyama). Preparation – focusing on cleanliness, simplicity and contentment.

Step 1 (Yama). Responsibility – looking at your place in your society and community and how you can contribute positively to it.

Ashtanga Yoga is one of the most physically demanding branches of Yoga, and because of this it attracts as many men as women. Several celebrities are known practitioners of Ashtanga Yoga, but you don’t have to be rich or famous to benefit. You just need to be focused and dedicated to achieving the best you can while you practise. And get a good Yoga mat; from the start, the postures require absolute concentration and demanding enough for that extra cushioning to be more than welcome.